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Memories of Tom Little

Posted By Noel Corser, September-01-10

Tom Little was one of those unique people who make a lasting impression on those who meet them, even if the meeting is a rather brief one.

I attended Woodstock School with Tom and Libby's middle daughter Nelly.  I remember having lunch with the family once, although I can't recall exactly why I was invited.  Tom and Libby were visiting the school from Afghanistan during one if it's (many) more turbulent times, and I remember listening enthralled to the stories about their life there.  To a young fellow from western Canada who had never even remotely experienced war or real poverty, this was Life with a capital "L".  Even at that time, the risks to them personally were very real, and I wondered if I would have the courage to live the way they did if placed in similar circumstances.

My route to the breakfast hall every morning led me past Ridgewood Field, and nearly every day that Tom was visiting Woodstock I remember seeing him heading out for an early morning run along the lower Tehri road.  I remember wondering if this was because it was unsafe to go for a run in Kabul, or simply because he enjoyed it, or if it was "for the exercise".  Whatever the reason, I admired him for it - all the more so because I knew how hard it was for me to force myself to get up early in the morning to go running.  Tom struck me as someone who was disciplined, who knew what he believed and wanted to do, and just simply made the choices to do it.

Tom Little was an eye doctor.  Before going to Woodstock I wanted to be a veterinarian.  By the end of my time in India I realized that people were more important than animals, and I believe Dr. Little played a significant role in that change of course.  In fact, he was the primary reason I initially wanted to study ophthalmology.  In the grand scheme of things, it probably didn’t matter what Tom did as a profession.  His influence on me, and I’m sure others, was because of his character more than his chosen work.

With three daughters of my own now, I find it even more awe-inspiring that Tom and Libby chose to raise their family in the thick of Life in Afghanistan, and have persevered in the work they started there.  I grieved to hear of his death.  At the same time, he died doing what he believed in.  May that be said of all of us when our turn comes.

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Hilja Terry: A Note from Kabul

Posted By Alumni Coordinator, August-23-10

Dear Friends,


Yesterday, Saturday August 21, we buried our father Dan Terry, along side his friend and colleague Tom Little at the British cemetery here in Kabul. The service was taken from the book of common prayer and attended by over 300 local and international friends. A memorial Iftar was held at the newly renovated Queen's palace in Babur's Garden - a fitting and beautiful place to close the day.

Our hearts are both full and heavy with the emotion of it all. Thank you all for your thoughts and prayers for us in this time. We continue to be amazed by all of the connections that are emerging in these days which Dad somehow was a part of - as he would say - we are all knotted together in the same carpet.

Hilja Terry '96

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Tribute to Dan Terry '65 from Daniel Taylor '65

Posted By Alumni Coordinator, August-16-10

An Epic Ride:

The Life of Dan Terry

George, Pat, and two-year old James Daniel moved from Kansas to Bombay India in 1948. George as a Certified Public Accountant started to work first in Bombay then around South and Central India, setting up financial accounting for the Methodist mission groups. India was then only a few years old as an independent nation, a land alive with optimism, where the Terry character immediately felt at home.

Schools, hospitals, orphanages, church programs, and a wide variety of programs were being extended across the young nation—each requiring a good bookkeeping system. George developed simplified double entry bookkeeping such that it could be taught to an untrained financial manager in a couple of days—then George returned to each site to make sure protocols were being properly followed. During this period George started taking along wife Pat and son Dan. The historical pattern of Dan's life was cast: this was a boy for rambling.

Then daughter Ruth joined the traveling family. In his reach-over-the-horizon thinking, George decided the efficient way to get to the scattered sites of India was by airplane. After learning to fly in an open cockpit Tiger Moth, the traveling family purchased a military-surplus Saab airplane. Young Dan became chief mechanic assistant, originating what was to become his life-long passion for "torquing bolts” and taking along on each trip a splendid inventory of "needed spare parts.”

As Dan started his school years at Woodstock, although there was always waiting academic work (establishing his life pattern with paperwork––to make sure it stayed waiting). Dan's curiosity for design features of buildings he walked past on the way to school required he crawl out on that roof, sharpened the blades of mechanical items such as pencil sharpeners on the teacher's desk during recess, riding a bicycle from the top of Landour Hill to the bottom. Late in his Woodstock career he rode his motorcycle (with Gabriel Campbell riding a motorscooter) all the way to Kathmandu. The catalogue of exploits about Dan Terry was starting to assemble—each venture successfully concluded but requiring a "knothole passage” along its way—the legacy was forming that set Dan apart from mere mortal student adventures. And, all who know him would be quick to remember, accompanying him on these trips came the essential mandated a spare part of a jar of peanut butter and usually also two cans of "condensee.”

On the way from India to college (at Baker University) Dan was introduced to the love of Afghanistan. To make the trip, the family purchased (and somehow got to India and through customs) a brand new Volkswagen. Eight people rode that VW to Europe—to fit eight into a VW, three rode on the roof laying down inside a special box. After a year in college, Dan took the short route from Kansas to Wyoming through New York City, and his 1952 Chevrolet blew out an engine—but he and Dan'l Taylor pulled another engine out of a junk car along the highway rumbling into the Tetons. Two summers later the two of them drove a VW bus from Europe to India blowing out another engine in the Baluchistan desert, rebuilding that in Herat, blowing out the engine again in Kabul and rebuilding, then burning out the crankshaft bearing in Masar-i-Sharif—after being chased out of Kabul by the Royal Palace Police, finally making it back to Europe. Two summers later, a more experienced, creatively financed Dan Terry came back through Afghanistan, this time taking the route in across the Soviet Union and driving a new VW bus with a Porsche engine.

A deep believer in peace with the Vietnam War at full bore, Dan returned to Afghanistan following a brief stint in Bangladesh. In Afghanistan, he met Seija, who was perhaps not quite sure what to make of the suitor, a man with such deep love of the country, peacemaking, justice, and now for a woman who clearly also shared these feelings. The wide open hills of the highlands of Afghanistan became the grounding place for their love, especially for the isolated communities of Afghanistan in Lal-Sarjungal with the disenfranchised Hazara people. Stories are legion from those years as Dan extricated numerous vehicles from snowdrifts in order to get over the passes and repair broken axles—and share a meal with Seija. And accompanying those meals was always the jar of peanut butter and the can of condensee (and as Dan memorably found when trying to caramalize condensee, left on the wood stove it explodes just as nicely as a hand grenade).

Following two years working at the Woodlands Institute in West Virginia (starting with a quick side-trip to Finland to finally marry Seija) the couple moved to West Virginia University where Dan completed his Masters degree. The family became three with the birth of daughter Hilja. But Afghanistan called, and the family with toddling Hilja headed back into service. They arrived in Afghanistan just months before the Soviet invasion, and unlike most other international workers, the Terry family did not leave. They hunkered down to continue the service for which they had gone out.

Two mind-boggling decades of challenges followed in which while most people in the world viewed Afghanistan as a land of war and devastation, the Dan Terry perspective saw opportunity. People were trying to improve their lives, and Dan and Seija (now with two daughters after the arrival of Anneli) served in nursing, prosthetics, and transport delivering assistance to valleys most aid agencies had never heard of. As Afghan pressure on the Soviet occupiers grew and almost all foreign workers left Afghanistan, the Terrys stayed.

The war then got hot. Among the more bizarre stores was that of a Soviet pilot ejecting from his jet whose parachute did not open, leaving him plastered into the compound wall adjoining the Terry house. When the Soviets finally withdrew, again the Terry family stayed. The Afghan Civil War had begun. One of the world's most chaotic wars was underway, with daily shifts of loyalties among armies and totally random acts of massive violence against civilians. There were now five in the family with addition of a third daughter, Saara. In these years Kabul was hardly the place to be, nor were the hidden valleys of Afghanistan's heartland, so the family moved north to Mazar-i-Sharif. At times, the family would come back to their home and find it emptied of many of their treasured possessions, but still they stayed because of their witness of caring and solidarity.

Not only did the health-based work the Terrys supported testify to their values, but perhaps most dramatically was the daily-life-experience of raising a family of three lovely daughters. This was a family sharing the experience of living. Their outlook did not turn life in Afghanistan into a heroic act, but rather that of plain living with the people.

This sharing of life with the people spoke of the family's special perspective. The Terry family was there, showing that they were also people, struggling like their neighbors to assemble a daily life with steps toward peace. It was a family statement of trust in the Afghan people—vividly shown by the trust of their daughters as they would travel alone, just the teenage girls using public transport, from Afghanistan across Pakistan and north India to Woodstock School in the Himalayas. The world might view Afghanistan as a land of hostility, but the Terrys stepped beyond such viewpoints and in their actions showed this was also a land where trust was still alive.

Following the chaos of civil war came the period of Taliban control. Through that too the Terrys stayed, holding family, reaching out to the people. There is the memorable moment of Dan's bicycle seat being shot out from under his crotch in the Kabul bazaar (yes, he still carried shrapnel from that until his recent death).

More profound in the lives of people, were the years of Dan's leadership through devastating droughts that prevented wheat crops from growing, droughts then followed by crippling winters of starvation. Month-after-month across these years Dan organized truck convoys of wheat that would crawl up from the plains of Pakistan, through the Khyber Pass, then leaving the "good roads” wend along the most remote of tracks into the mountains of the Hazarajat. (Dan designed special truck wheel chains and had metalsmiths make them so the truck wheels could gain traction while crossing icy precipices.) And inevitably the wheat convoys would get stuck, sometimes for days in the snow. Dan stayed with the drivers digging not just the convoys out, but indeed digging forward through the drifts so the wheat could be delivered.

In a world of linear thinkers (get supplies to the people, keep accounting ledgers with tight paper trails, discuss the challenges of Afghanistan in logic and systematic points) Dan created a world of convoluted, self-contradicting complexity. Make it simple, Dan, was the aid-donor's frustrated demand.

No was the Dan reply—simple is not Afghanistan and certainly not the way that all the pieces fit together. The donor must adapt to Afghanistan—it is both wrong and ineffective to try and adapt Afghanistan to Western ways. Dan Terry was right; something he illustrated every time he got a convoy of trucks through into the distant Hazarajat.

More remarkable than that his trucks got through was that along each route people waited in the snows—not khans waiting who would take the wheat and profit but local people pre-organized into work groups to build roads and irrigations systems. Dan had called the local systems into functioning. While international assistance attempted to impose logical linear ways, Dan both figured out and also succeeded in working within the complex systems of reality in Afghanistan.

Then in 2002 the Taliban fell and supposedly a new world of prosperity was coming to Afghanistan. Some thought the Dan Terry ways of working within Afghan systems were unneeded, but still Dan and Seija stayed as they always had. Do not impose onto the people an external doctrine, help them grow from within with their own resources—doing so is true love for the other. Doing so is respect for the other's humanity, not emphasizing their deficiencies. A profound ethical choice needed to be underway in the international community, and Dan Terry was outspoken in trying to press it forward. Few understood Dan's point of respect and building from within Afghanistan, so certain were they of the rightness of their biases.

But the Afghan people were rejecting the external ways. Dan heard this, and history is increasingly confirming what he heard many years before others. Dan would not join the massive flood of foreign dollars. He did not believe in answers lying in Westerners. He believed in empowering Afghans by opening their understanding. New ideas needed to blend with old ways. In 2006 he had left his thirty-year base in the International Assistance Mission and joined Future Generations Afghanistan, serving from 2007-2008 as its Country Director.

Through the decade of post-Taliban rule, as the Taliban and insurgents mounted efforts to return, Dan kept listening, kept respecting, kept insisting that new ways be uncovered in old truths of the people. He was trying to work with the new government and within the changing culture. It was a very confusing, fast-moving time when the primary value of many was self-advancement, but when Dan's value was larger social advancement, especially in a manner that would engage the most marginalized.

The quest he was on was not only a challenge of discovering ways of better well-being, but more importantly it was also the challenge of acting on the truths of respect and compassion. It was to act in that way that Dan Terry went once again into the rugged valleys of Afghanistan, this time to Nuristan, this time to help people see more clearly. It was evidence of the sincerity of his beliefs that he died on the way back, sure that the way forward was in going ahead, sure that the way out of the muck of present deteriorating ways lay in working with the Afghan people not trying to manipulate them.

Let us turn to his own words: "With any conflict can only come more and more conflict or a real resolution to the problem. So, it is in the places of greatest conflict where there is hope for the greatest resolution.” –Dan Terry

--By Dan'l Taylor

Corrections and additions are appreciated.

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Dan Terry ('65) and Tom Little (P): Letter to the Editor of the Toronto Star

Posted By Christopher Starr, August-16-10

LETTER TO THE EDITOR

Re: Afghan ... aid workers last moments (The Star August 12). I have had the privilege to serve on the Board of AIM in late 1980s. My children studied with Dan Terry's children at Woodstock Christian International School in Mussoorie, India. I had personally known some of these extraordinary men who chose to leave the comforts of the Western world to dedicate their lives to sever the poorest of the poor in the back waters of Afghanistan. They were martyrs in the real sense of the word because they gave their lives for the Faith which inspired them to serve so selflessly. They loved the Afghans not only because their faith inspired them to do so. But they also found the ordinary Afghans so hospitable, generous and loving. They, and their kind, are the only ones who can bring transformation to Afghanistan. The western armies have only created chaos, disruption and needless violence in Afghanistan for their selfish ends.

The Nuristan area of Afghanistan is prone to trachoma. Dr. Little was a well known ophthalmologist and trained some of the leading Afghan ophthalmologists. They called their hospital the Noor Hospital because it brought light to the people who suffered from Trachoma, which is prevalent in that part of Afghanistan. These ten and their kind are the ones who offer hope to lands which are tormented by disease, violence and exploitation. Not armies and politicians.

Clarence McMullen

605-9 Northern Heights Dr

Richmond Hill, L4B 4M5

905 707 0441; 416 705 8297

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Tom Little Memorial fund and Libby Little Support: From Mark Bradby '95

Posted By Alumni Coordinator, August-13-10
For people in the USA interested in making a donation in support of the Little family, Interserve (their sending organization) has set up two funds:

- one to support the family and specifically Libby (Tom's widow) which is not tax deductible
- a Tom Little memorial fund supporting projects close to Tom's heart which is tax deductible

Go to the attached link and select the 'partner support' choice. In the designation box either write "Tom Little memorial fund" or "Libby Little".

For those outside of the United States, checks can be sent to Interserve USA at

Interserve
Attn: Finance Clerk
PO Box 418
Upper Darby, PA 19082-0418

and in the 'Memo' line, either write: "Tom Little memorial fund" or "Libby Little".

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Links to Stories about Dan Terry ('65 and Parent) and Tom Little

Posted By Christopher Starr, August-13-10
Updated: August-16-10

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Info regarding gifts for Dan Terry ('65 and Parent) and Tom Little (Parent): From Patty Riddle

Posted By Christopher Starr, August-13-10
Updated: August-13-10
Dan Taylor from Future Generations is trying to coordinate many things for Dan Terry's funeral and other matters.I offered to let you know about the need for monetary (or other) gifts to help with travel expenses (particularly for Dan's three daughters and sister to get to/from Kabul/US for the funeral), funeral costs, and the mandatory dinners in Afghan custom (and the crowd will be huge).We all know the Terrys never had money.

There are two ways to contribute which would be tax-deductible. They are both through the Future Generations. Dan used to be the Country Director of Future Generations Afghanistan, and they have set up a Dan Terry Family Fund. The first two ways to contribute are:

1.) make a check out to Future Generations and mail it to 400 Road Less Traveled, Franklin, WV 26807 (indicate it is for the Dan Terry Family Fund);

2.) go to the website http://www.future.org/ website, click on the Dan Terry Family Fund link in the far left margin and make an on-line contribution.

The bodies of four of the Americans, escorted by FBI personnel, were flown to the United States on Wednesday aboard U.S. military aircraft, according to Caitlin Hayden, a spokeswoman for the U.S. Embassy in Kabul. "In accordance with their families' wishes, the remains of two American citizens will remain in Afghanistan and be laid to rest here, in the country they selflessly and courageously served for so many years," she said.

* The Woodstock School Alumni Office is trying to find out whether a similar fund exists for Tom Little, Woodstock Parent. If you know, please send us the information, and we'll publish it.

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Dan Terry '65 Tribute: From J. Gabriel Campbell, The Mountain Institute

Posted By Christopher Starr, August-13-10
Any of you who knew Dan knew that he deeply loved Afghanistan and worked for peace. Over the 30 years he has worked in Afghanistan he has had many close calls, there are few foreigners who have served that country so long. I had visited him and traveled with him in Afghanistan several times last year and the year before. A wonderful, beautiful person who gave his life to serve God and the people of Afghanistan.

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Dan Terry '65 Tribute: From Daniel Taylor, Future Generations

Posted By Christopher Starr, August-13-10
Any of you who knew Dan knew that he deeply loved Afghanistan and worked for peace. Over the 30 years he has worked in Afghanistan he has had many close calls, there are few foreigners who have served that country so long. While he served from his deep Christian conviction of loving one's neighbor, believing in the importance of witnessing for peace, he was never in any manner evangelical. As many of you know, Dan has been my friend since 1953; it is a great personal loss. I can hear his voice as it so often said, "words carry no meaning unless you are willing to couple them to actions."

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Dan Terry '65: From Saara Terry de Walle '02 (Dan's daughter), August 7, 2010 at 3:16pm

Posted By Christopher Starr, August-13-10
Updated: August-13-10
I am torn apart, in utter shock and I do not have words to express my grief. I have more anger than peace and questions than answers, but I know God is good, and he is good all the time. I want to share with you a verse that is close to my heart and that has carried my family through our many struggles, trials and tribulations. "And we know that in ALL things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose." (Romans 8:28) Another verse the Lord has encouraged me with is: "No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through Him who loved us. For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord." (Romans 8:38). Please keep my family and the other families who also loved ones in your prayers. And it breaks me to say this, but my Dad would ask that you please pray especially for our enemies - for those who pulled the trigger. "Father, forgive them for they know not what they do." (Luke 23:24)

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